Finding Fault in Others

Law of Attraction in Action  (Performance Management) 

                          

It seems to be human nature to look for what’s wrong with people, especially those who have qualities you’d love to have. Criticizing others might make a person feel better about him for a minute but it sends a negative vibe for the Law of Attraction to pick up on. Jealousy and Insecurity are the big reasons that people find fault with others.

All the emotions created when a person looks for things to criticize make his vibration negative. In the long run, it won’t make him feel better about himself.

A person who spend time looking for fault in others should spend time in correcting his own. Looking for the beauty in people makes you feel good, not mean or hurtful.

People with good self-esteem, who love themselves, tend to look for the good in people. When you love yourself, you’re much less likely to look for what’s wrong with someone else.

Finding fault stops progress. Finding solution ignites success.

Aiyan Thiruvalluvar says

தன்குற்றம் நீக்கிப் பிறர்குற்றங் காண்கிற்பின் 

என்குற்ற மாகும் இறைக்கு. (436)

दोष-मुक्त कर आपको, बाद पराया दाष ।
जो देखे उस भूप में, हो सकता क्या दोष ॥ (४३६)

Explanation by Scholars

Faultless the leader who first cures his own faults, and then permits himself to scan faults of other men.

முதலில் தனக்குள்ள குறையை நீக்கிக்கொண்டு அதன்பின்னர் பிறர் குறையைக் கண்டு சொல்லும் தலைவனுக்கு என்ன குறை நேரும்?.